No really…I was working late last night Dad!

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say no Warning: Herein lies TMI. Tread cautiously.

I have a coupon in my personal e-mail box for 15% off condoms.

Now, you may ask yourself, “What did he sign up for to get on a condom e-mail list?” I don’t subscribe to Playboy magazine if that’s what you’re wondering. No, I actually DID purchase condoms and so, now I’m on every condom and intimacy Web site mailing list, plus a few others that I hadn’t counted on.

But I think it’s funny how easy it is to get condoms now–and anonymously too. I remember buying condoms when I was in high school (see…TMI) and I remember the difficulty in doing so. There were all kinds of unwritten rules to it, such as:

bullet point You couldn’t buy them at the local drug store, because there was only one local drug store and inevitably someone you knew was working there and if they were a school acquaintance, you were immediately tagged as either having sex with your girlfriend, or cheating on her. Neither rumor being something you necessarily wanted getting out.

bullet point Random, out of the way gas stations were good, but the prices were usually so high that you were forced to decide at what price you wanted to be “safe.”

bullet point I think there was a school program for condoms, but again, Really? You want to be going into the guidance counselor’s office for condoms, knowingly submitting yourself to the disapproving gaze of someone who considers herself morally superior to every other human being, even though she chain-smoked like a choo choo on her breaks. Not that I’m saying smoking is a “moral” decision, but when you put it together with the empty cardboard boxes of “Absolut” she had beside her desk, you had to figure!

And I happen to know that purchasing condoms today online is waay simpler than anything we were forced to do as kids. I mean, I don’t think they even ask your birthday when you purchase them online, so any kid could order them as long as he/she beats mom and dad home and gets to the mail first.

Which makes me wonder which side of this “free condom in schools” issue I stand on. Georgia doesn’t currently have a program like this, but I figure it’s only a matter of time. But regardless, on the one hand, I want to be the one who teaches my boys about sex; and it’s my morality (my ADULT morality, I should clarify)–not the state’s–that I want to instill in them.

On the other hand, I know from personal experience that my lessons and personal attempts at instilling morality in them only goes so far. In the end, those teenage hormones, and a really hot cheerleader, will be the ultimate decision maker in their deciding to have sex at a young age. And since getting condoms isn’t really any kind of barrier like it used to be, I have to wonder which is the lesser of two evils: sex without a condom, or sex with a condom provided by either me (eek!) or through some state institutional program.

Luckily, I have at least 9 years, if you believe the stats about 13-year olds having sex today, before I have to start worrying about it.

Meanwhile, I have this 15% off coupon in my inbox. What the heck? CareerMom doesn’t appear in any hurry to get back on “the pill” and I’m sure as heck in no hurry to have another baby, so…bottom’s up!

(BTW: I’ll be happy to share my coupon with anyone who “needs” them)

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4 thoughts on “No really…I was working late last night Dad!

    Leighton aka MyBestInvest said:
    June 25, 2008 at 10:08 pm

    I hope you’ll tell us what sorts of search engine results this post nets you!

    RE: My most popular one is still the one titled, “Of Butt-Paste…” even though it was totally talking about non-sex stuff. “Condoms” should net me the motherload!

    romi41 said:
    June 25, 2008 at 10:37 pm

    hahaha….choo-choo smoking and Absolut boxes, that sounds like a familiar guidance counselor! 🙂

    PS: I’d like to say I need those condoms, but they’d prolly expire before I found someone to put them on, hahahaha 😉

    RE: Yeah, and she looked like she’d spent half her youth lying on the beach. Probably watching “Gidget” and “Frankie” do the beach shuffle or something.

    Allison said:
    June 26, 2008 at 9:34 am

    My favorite part of this post is that you did a cost-benefit analysis at a gas station to purchase condoms.

    My least favorite part of this post is that it caused me to contemplate the possibility that their every heathen boy out there is going to be after my daughter someday (I realize this is an exaggeration, but I think this is how it will feel MANY years down the road.)

    Rose said:
    June 30, 2008 at 12:31 pm

    I agree that easy access to a condom is better than going without. I donot think I will care where my son/daughter gets one, as long as they use one.

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